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	<title>Comments on: Ask for Help</title>
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	<description>- HATE SOMETHING, CHANGE SOMETHING, MAKE SOMETHING BETTER -</description>
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		<title>By: Yves Hanoulle</title>
		<link>http://www.selfishprogramming.com/2008/08/21/ask-for-help/#comment-22</link>
		<dc:creator>Yves Hanoulle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2008 14:43:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The most powerfull asks for help I have done (both as receiver and as giver) is asking for help when you don't know where you need help on.
"Your" nine boxes can help with that.

About the "should I say or should I go" question, the fact that a persons asks a coach this question for me is a good sign.
That is a pretty deep ask for help.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The most powerfull asks for help I have done (both as receiver and as giver) is asking for help when you don&#8217;t know where you need help on.<br />
&#8220;Your&#8221; nine boxes can help with that.</p>
<p>About the &#8220;should I say or should I go&#8221; question, the fact that a persons asks a coach this question for me is a good sign.<br />
That is a pretty deep ask for help.</p>
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		<title>By: portiatung</title>
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		<dc:creator>portiatung</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 11:19:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Guillaume,

Thanks for your film suggestion! I've added it to my online DVD list and will send you thoughts on it when I've watched it.

- Portia</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Guillaume,</p>
<p>Thanks for your film suggestion! I&#8217;ve added it to my online DVD list and will send you thoughts on it when I&#8217;ve watched it.</p>
<p>- Portia</p>
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		<title>By: Guillaume</title>
		<link>http://www.selfishprogramming.com/2008/08/21/ask-for-help/#comment-16</link>
		<dc:creator>Guillaume</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2008 14:48:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Portia, 

did you see the film "Clean" (2004, O.Assayas) ? The tagline, as said by Nick Nolte character is "People change. When they don't have a choice, they do change". A rare message subtly carried by Maggie Cheung (main char) and other actors. I still don't know precisely why, but this film is one of the sources that help me still today at throwing away the "can't change" feeling. If you see this film, can you please tell me your impressions ?
Bye,

Guillaume</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Portia, </p>
<p>did you see the film &#8220;Clean&#8221; (2004, O.Assayas) ? The tagline, as said by Nick Nolte character is &#8220;People change. When they don&#8217;t have a choice, they do change&#8221;. A rare message subtly carried by Maggie Cheung (main char) and other actors. I still don&#8217;t know precisely why, but this film is one of the sources that help me still today at throwing away the &#8220;can&#8217;t change&#8221; feeling. If you see this film, can you please tell me your impressions ?<br />
Bye,</p>
<p>Guillaume</p>
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