Be Your Own Valentine
Friday, 13 February 2009
The more I learn, the more I know.
The more I know, the more I forget,
The less I know.
Life’s a series of consequences, sequels, repeats and recorded playbacks. And so we’ve plenty of opportunities, both to forget and to re-learn. The lessons we learnt as children not only still hold true, but are often the most useful. That’s why it’s important we help each other remember. Together.
Back to Basics
Robert Fulghum isn’t a man who minces his words. In his book titled ‘All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten’, he identifies what he calls The Kindergarten Credo:
- Share everything.
- Play fair.
- Don’t hit people.
- Put things back where you found them.
- Clean up your own mess.
- Don’t take things that aren’t yours.
- Say sorry when you hurt somebody.
- Wash your hands before you eat.
- Warm cookies and milk are good for you.
- Live a balanced life.
- Take a nap every afternoon.
- When you go out into the world, watch out for traffic, hold hands, and stick together.
These are what he refers to as the working rules of human enterprise. They are why we send children to school. To be civilised.
‘To be fair, we must share’
For those use to adopting a more directive approach in management, the toughest challenge that comes with transitioning to Agile is sharing. Sharing information, sharing pain, sharing joy and, most important of all, sharing glory. Those who define themselves 100% by what they do often find it almost impossible to relinquish the control and power they’re used to in order to become part of an Agile team.
Given an environment where everyone can be courageous, strangers can come together to form self-organising teams. Often, this happens much quicker than you think. The catch? As a manager and team member, you must adopt a collaborative style yourself. Your first step begins with suspending judgement.
If you believe that the only thing you can be certain of in life is that people will always let you down, the only person you can be sure to disappoint is yourself.
What would life be like if you no longer believed in everything you think?